Thursday, January 31, 2008
Super Glue!
I was sitting in carpool line waiting to pick the boys up from 3-K this afternoon and their teacher called me on my cell phone. She said that David had hit his eye and I should probably come in; so... I parked the car and ran in. David was screaming and crying and blood was everywhere!
It ended up being a rather small cut but it looked a little deep so we decided I should take him to doctor to be checked out. So I called the doctor and told them we were coming and then called James to meet us there. (It is so nice that he works right down the road from their doctors office, he can usually always meet me there. Sometimes being at the doctor with 2 is really hard!)
We really didn't have to wait long at all, and we got to visit with some 16 year old twin boys in the well baby waiting room. I can't imagine my boys being that big, but they will be one day. One even had blond hair and the other brown!
Anyway, the doctor said the cut was very straight and went back together really well so he could just glue it instead of having to stitch it. That was fine with me! It took about 5 minutes and then we were out of there. David can't have a bath for 5 days!! I guess I will have to give him a sponge bath, I don't want any stinky boys in my house!!
We stopped at the library on the way home and we are all watching "Finding Nemo" right now, since we missed nap time today. Hopefully I can put them to bed early tonight and have a relaxing evening with James!
Wednesday, January 30, 2008
Wednesday, January 23, 2008
Tuesday, January 22, 2008
Paul & David, Our Double Portion Covenant Blessings!
Today is Paul & David's 4 year old birthday! We celebrated their birthday Saturday with a party and some snow! They still think it snowed just for their birthday party!! We started off their party with a tour of our local fire station and then came back to our house for presents, cake, and ice cream! James, in now his yearly tradition, created them a wonderful fire truck birthday cake. I baked it (4 rectangular cakes) and he did everything else; I think he did a wonderful job and the boys were absolutely thrilled with it! They were, however, very upset when he took the remainder of it to work yesterday; we just didn't need that much cake for the 4 of us.
On this their birthday, I wanted to share my story of Paul & David and the gift of their life, so here it goes:
When James and I were engaged, my first bridal shower was a blessing shower. Everyone that came brought a Bible verse to share with me to encourage me in being a wife, shared with me some Godly counsel, and prayed over me and our future marriage. My Bible study teacher at the time, Marisa Lewis, prayed over me that we would experience God's double portion covenant blessings (remember that!). On the day of our wedding there was a double rainbow over our church! All of that was in 2000.
Fast forward to 2003, we found out we were pregnant in July of 2003 (we did not know yet that we were having twins). We found out that we were pregnant the day after my granny died, and 3 months after my grandfather died. So in that horribly sad time we were able to give my parents some happy and good news to lift their spirits. After we had told them, I remember hearing my dad say "The Lord takes one but He gives another." Little did we know!
A few weeks after we found out we were pregnant, there was a double rainbow over our house. I remember thinking that it was a sign of God's promise that everything would be fine.
In September I went for my 3rd doctors appointment. James almost did not go with me but he changed his mind and met me there. I was having some really bad pains in my left side, and the doctor was a bit concerned because he thought it was a bit early to be experiencing pain from stretching ligaments; so he sent me to have an ultrasound to make sure I did not have an ovarian cyst. Well, the lady doing the test was very quiet the whole time, and then finally she said, "Here is your baby, and here is another one!" I said "What, there are 2?! But I didn't do fertility!!" She said, "That happens sometimes!" Then she called James back and told him, and all he could say was "ok". So we left the hospital that day very excited and slightly overwhelmed! I was so overwhelmed that I could not find my car in the parking deck and James had to drive me around until we found it!!
As I was driving home, it just struck me like a ton of bricks, these babies were God's "double portion covenant blessings." There was and is no doubt in my mind that Paul and David are our double blessings from the Lord, and what a joy and a blessing they are! God has been so gracious and so good to us, blessing us with healthy, happy children; even though they were 8 weeks early and stayed in the NICU for 3 weeks (they came home on Valentine's Day!). God's hand is mighty upon our family and I am so thankful for His presence, His protection, His guidance, His love, His grace, and His mercy. It is my desire that Paul and David grow up to love and serve the Lord wholeheartedly, and to bring Him honor and glory with their lives, and to know that I consider them my "double blessings" straight from God Himself.
Happy Birthday Paul & David!! Mommy loves you very, very, very much!!
Monday, January 21, 2008
It Snowed!!!
Well, we had snow on Saturday! The boys were very excited, not only because it snowed, but also because it snowed for their birthday party!! How cool is that, that you get to have snow at your birthday party when you live in Alabama. Here are a few pictures of them in the snow and of the snowman that we made. Check in tomorrow for more details about their birthday party. I will write about it tomorrow, on their actual birthday. They will be 4 years old, can you believe it?!
Ignore the piece of a picture on the side, I added it again so you could see it better, but could not get the part of one to delete, oh well.
Wednesday, January 16, 2008
Tuesday, January 15, 2008
We've Been Sick
I am such a pitiful sick person... James and the boys drove me to the doctor on Sat. morning because I was very weak and he didn't think I should drive, I did not complain. I had had fever and chills all night and didn't want to do anything but lay down. So they took me to the doctor, where I waited an hour and a half in the lobby before finally getting called to the back. After being checked out and finding out yes I did have strep throat, the doctor said he would order me a steriod shot and a round of antibiotics. So the nurse comes in to give me my shot, in my bottom!! Well, I don't do well with needles, never have, and after getting my shot I feel sick and light headed, almost ready to faint. The nurse notices and makes me lay back down on the bed and holds my feet up in the air. After a few minutes I think I am better and she walks me to the check out area, where once again I get light-headed and faint feeling. She makes me sit down, takes my prescription to the pharmacy for me, and calls James to come get me. She then walks me to the waiting area, gets me all situated with my feet up in a chair, and finally James arrives to rescue me!! Praise God for a wonderful husband who takes such good care of me.
Well, the "highlight" of my being sick was on Friday night. I had gone to bed right after dinner and James was taking care of the boys and getting them ready for bed. I heard someone walk into the room and walk over to my side of the bed, I opened my eyes and it was James and the boys, they had come to pray for me. Paul and David stood there so still beside James and listened quietly as he prayed for God to make mommy better, and then he helped each of them pray their own prayer for mommy. It was so precious, I had tears rolling down my cheeks but joy in my heart. I can't describe what it was like to hear my little ones saying their heartfelt prayers to God on behalf of their mommy, but it touched me and it is one of those memories that I will forever treasure in my heart.
Friday, January 11, 2008
A Prayer For Women
My earnest challenge and prayer for you is . . .
. . . That all of your life—in whatever calling—be devoted to the glory of God.
. . . That the promises of Christ be trusted so fully that peace and joy and strength fill your soul to overflowing.
. . . That this fullness of God overflow in daily acts of love so that people might see your good deeds and give glory to your Father in Heaven.
. . . That you be women of the Book, who love and study and obey the Bible in every area of its teaching; that meditation on biblical truth be the source of hope and faith; that you continue to grow in understanding through all the chapters of your life, never thinking that study and growth are only for others.
. . . That you be women of prayer, so that the Word of God will be opened to you, and so the power of faith and holiness will descend upon you; that your spiritual influence may increase at home and at church and in the world.
. . . That you be women who have a deep grasp of the sovereign grace of God which undergirds all these spiritual processes; and that you be deep thinkers about the doctrines of grace, and even deeper lovers of these things.
. . . That you be totally committed to ministry, whatever your specific calling; that you not fritter away your time on soaps or women’s magazines or unimportant hobbies or shopping; that you redeem the time for Christ and his Kingdom.
. . . That, if you are single, you exploit your singleness to the full in devotion to God (the way Jesus and Paul and Mary Slessor and Amy Carmichael did) and not be paralyzed by the desire to be married.
. . . That, if you are married, you creatively and intelligently and sincerely support the leadership of your husband as deeply as obedience to Christ will allow; that you encourage him in his God-appointed role as head; that you influence him spiritually primarily through your fearless tranquility and holiness and prayer.
. . . That, if you have children, you accept responsibility with your husband (or alone if necessary) to raise up children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord—children who hope in the triumph of God—sharing with your husband the teaching and discipline they need, and giving them the special attention they crave from you, as well as that special nurturing touch and care that you alone are fitted to give.
. . . That you not assume that secular employment is a greater challenge or a better use of your life than the countless opportunities of service and witness in the home, the neighborhood, the community, the church, and the world; that you not only pose the question: career or full-time homemaker?, but that you ask just as seriously: full-time career or freedom for ministry? That you ask: Which would be greater for the Kingdom—to work for someone who tells you what to do to make his or her business prosper, or to be God’s free agent dreaming your own dream about how your time and your home and your creativity could make God’s business prosper? And that in all this you make your choices not on the basis of secular trends or upward lifestyle expectations, but on the basis of what will strengthen the faith of the family and advance the cause of Christ.
. . . That you step back and (with your husband, if you are married) plan the various forms of your life’s ministry in chapters. Chapters are divided by various things—age, strength, singleness, marriage, employment, children at home, children in college, grandchildren, retirement, etc. No chapter has all the joys. Finite life is a series of tradeoffs. Finding God’s will, and living for the glory of Christ to the full in every chapter is what makes it a success, not whether it reads like somebody else’s chapter or whether it has in it what only another chapter will bring.
. . . That you develop a wartime mentality and lifestyle; that you never forget that life is short, that billions of people hang in the balance of heaven and hell every day, that the love of money is spiritual suicide, that the goals of upward mobility (nicer clothes, cars, houses, vacations, food, hobbies) are a poor and dangerous substitute for the goals of living for Christ with all your might and maximizing your joy in ministry to people’s needs.
. . . That in all your relationships with men (not just in marriage) you seek the guidance of the Holy Spirit in applying the biblical vision of manhood and womanhood; that you develop a style and demeanor that does justice to the unique role God has given to man to feel responsible for gracious leadership in relation to women—a leadership which involves elements of protection and provision and a pattern of initiative; that you think creatively and with cultural sensitivity (just as he must do) in shaping the style and setting the tone of your interaction with men.
. . . That you see the biblical guidelines for what is appropriate and inappropriate for men and women not as arbitrary constraints on freedom, but as wise and gracious prescriptions for how to discover the true freedom of God’s ideal of complementarity; that you not measure your potential by the few roles withheld, but by the countless roles offered; that you look to the loving God of Scripture and dream about the possibilities of your service to him. (For a detailed list of service possibilities, see the pdf titled, Opportunities for Ministry.)
Excerpted from Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood: A Response to Evangelical Feminism by Pastor John Piper.
Wednesday, January 9, 2008
A Trade for some Joy!
I got out of bed this morning while my whole house was sleeping and climbed the stairs to go up to meet with my Lord (I like to think I am climbing up to the mountain of the Lord, like in the scriptures). I had my quiet time, reading my Bible and my new devotion book I am working through; then changed into my outside clothes to go for a power walk with the Lord.
I like to walk and pray, and I like to be outside when I do. I am not distracted by things around the house, and I feel closer to the Lord when I can look up into the immense sky. Anyway, I was walking and praying, at times just not saying anything to the Lord, but listening in case He wanted to speak to me. I walked past a young boy and girl waiting for the school bus, told them "Good Morning," said a short prayer for them silently, and just kept on walking. Well, then I hear the boy start to sing, and at first I did not recognize the song, but then I did. Then they both started to sing, and to sing rather loudly. They were singing "I'm trading my sorrows, I'm trading my sickness, I'm trading my pain, I'm trading it all for the joy of the Lord, yes, Lord, yes, Lord, yes, yes, Lord, Amen" and on they kept singing.
And it was then that I felt the Lord was speaking to me, He asked me what did I need to trade for the joy of the Lord? And I answered. I told my Lord that the frustrations, the irritations, the stresses that come my way on a daily basis are what I want to trade for the joy of the Lord. So I am determined that when I feel that frustration begin to creep in, that irritability start to rise up, and that stress start to overtake me, I am going to say "Yes, Lord, Yes, Lord, Yes Yes Lord - I will trade all of that for the joy of the Lord!!"
So what about you? What do you need to trade for the joy of the Lord?
Friday, January 4, 2008
A Moment
We were eating breakfast, all 4 of us. We get to do that since James doesn't have to leave for work until around 8:30. I was eating some really good strawberries that I got at Publix earlier this week, and offered some to the boys. They declined them, of course. But then I started telling them about how my Granny and Maw-Maw used to take me to pick strawberries when I was a little girl. They looked at me rather odd, and I explained to them that Mommy had a Granny and a Maw-maw, like they have a Granny and a Grandmother.
Then David looked at me and asked, "Where are they?" I replied, "They are in Heaven with Jesus." David asked me "why?" I wasn't quite sure what to say, I don't know that they understand death, we have never really talked about. I just looked at James, and he answered for me and just said that they had died. David asked again, "Why?" Oh, that famous question!! I told him that they had just gotten old and died, and that we all will die someday. Then David said, "Did Daddy die?" Now what prompted that, James was right there with us! I told him no, of course.
David sat there and thought for a few minutes, and then asked me, "Did they die on the cross?" Now I just thought that that was precious! You see, we have talked about death, the death of Jesus. They know that Jesus died on the cross and that He died for our sins, though they do not grasp the gravity of that right now, so they related the death of my grandmothers to the only death that they know about, the death of Jesus. I then shared with them that my Granny and Maw-maw did not have to die on the cross, because Jesus had done that for them so they could go to Heaven and be with Him. And that was the end of it, he just continued eating his waffle and then got down to go play.
Oh, to be a child! But you know what, I am! I am a child of the King!! And I love it!!
Wednesday, January 2, 2008
Tuesday, January 1, 2008
Plans for 2008!!!
Anyway, with that said, I have once again set some goals for myself for 2008, and just thought I would share them:
1. I plan to memorize the book of 1 John.
2. I plan to read the Bible through in a year.
3. I plan to be more diligent and faithful in my prayer life.
4. I plan to be more diligent in keeping a journal of how the Lord is working in my life and what He is showing and teaching me. I was pretty good at this before marriage and kids!
5. I plan to take better care of the Temple of the Lord, my body. My eyes were opened this past year in the Beth Moore Bible study that I did (A Woman's Heart, God's Dwelling Place) to the awesomeness of being God's Temple, and what it truly means. It is a mighty and glorious thing, and I feel one that is not to be taken lightly.
6. I started running in 2007, so I have set myself a goal of running a 5K sometime during 2008.
7. I plan to be more consistent in disciplining and teaching and training my boys.
8. I also plan to learn to do inductive Bible study. My sweet husband gave me an Inductive Study Bible for Christmas, and a book on learning how to study the Bible.
9. I plan to have more friends over for dinner and/or just times of fellowship.
10. I plan to continue my scrapbooking!!!
I think that is sufficient, I am getting tired just reading back over them! But it is good to plan and to have things to work towards. I know that God always blesses our efforts when we are seeking to do things that would draw us closer to Him. So what about you, do you have any plans for 2008?
If you did not read my Top 12 Memories of 2007, go back 1 post and check them out!
Monday, December 31, 2007
Top 12 Memories from 2007
1. Paul & David turning 3 years old! They absolutely loved their birthday party this year and thought it was so fun to open all their presents. It was a joy to watch them have so much fun!!
2. Having a picnic outside with my boys during some awesome springlike weather in February! Isn't it great to live in the South!
3. Going to see Mrs. Pattycake live has to be the highlight for March. Paul was in such awe that she was the real Mrs. Pattycake. His little face was just lit up with joy and excitement. And of course, I cried when he got out in the aisle and did the dance to the Resurrection song he had learned at church, and later, when he sat in my lap and sang so sweetly "Jesus Loves Me" along with Mrs. Pattycake. I am tearing up now as I type this, I am so terribly emotional!!
4. We have several great memories from April, it is hard to pick a favorite, so I will briefly share all. We all went to the Montgomery Zoo, (an absolutely wonderful zoo, if you have never been you should go, I think it is much better than the B'ham zoo); we went to pick strawberries, and we dyed Easter eggs.
5. The highlight of May was that we got to take a week long vacation to the beach! It was wonderful, the boys had a blast, we could actually relax on the beach and watch them, and they were potty-trained. Our 1st vacation without diapers, wonderful!!
6. Favorite memories from June are Paul & David moving to their toddler beds from their baby beds! I know, they probably needed to move into them much sooner than they did, but they never climbed out so why ruin a good thing, now they can get up whenever they want too! Also, they loved going swimming this summer, and David loved jumping off the diving board and going down the slide!
7. The highlight of July has to be our family outing to the American Village on the 4th of July. It was a long afternoon and evening, but we all had lots of fun.
8. The top memory of August has nothing to do with my children! I had a mini vacation away from it all. My sister and I went to Altanta to the Women of Faith conference, and to the preconference with Beth Moore. We had a really nice time and were really proud of ourselves for finding our way around and riding the Marta successfully! We really felt like a couple of country bumpkins!
9. I really have no favorite moments from September, it was a very stressful month for our family. Our anniversary outing was quite dampened with some unexpected family stress, during which James looked at me and said "This is one of those 'in worse' times." I am looking forward to our next anniversary and a much better celebration with my husband!
10. My favorite memory from October was going to Homecoming at the Marion United Methodist Church where I grew up. I got to see my youth pastor and my favorite pastor from my teenage years, and was able to express to them my gratitude for the things they had taught me and done for me during those tumultuous teenage years.
11. My favorite memory from November was watching my precious boys perform in their Thanksgiving program at 3-K. They were absolutely adorable and did a wonderful job.
12. My favorite memory from December has to be just the excitement on my boys faces and in their voices as they got ready for Christmas. It made my heart very happy to hear them talk about Jesus' birthday, to watch them build stables and mangers with their lincoln logs and blocks, and to see them draw pictures of the donkey that Mary rode. It makes me so glad to know that they are learning about Jesus, and that thoughts of the true Christmas story fill their hearts and minds.
There they are, my top 12 memories. I am so thankful for my life and for my family, the Lord has truly blessed me and those I love. I pray that my life is also a blessing to Him and to others!
Thursday, December 27, 2007
Our Christmas!
After dinner off we went to look at some magnificent Christmas lights. It was getting close to the boys bedtime, but we thought we would be ok since they could just fall asleep in the car while we were driving if they got too tired. Little did we know that these were famous Christmas lights that everyone else in Georgia were also going to see! It took us about 45 minutes to get to the entrance to the lights, and we had already stopped once so the boys could go potty on the side of the road (thank goodness we have boys!!) Just as we get to the entrance David says, "I need to go poo-poo," and this nice aroma filled the car! James quickly gets out of the car and gets David to go find a bathroom, I get in the drivers seat and continue to go with the flow of the traffic, praying fervently that James will make it on time and that I will be able to find them again in all this madness. I call James a few times on his cell phone and he still hasn't found a bathroom, and he is having to carry David, who is barefooted, in the drizzling rain. We finally catch back up with each other after James has walked about a mile and a half, and they get back in car, not yet having found a bathroom. We drive a little further and finally see a sign for the bathroom, and quickly follow it. Well, at this point David was very stressed so he was unable to relax and go potty, so off we went to see the rest of the lights. They were absolutely gorgeous and we all enjoyed them after our ordeal was over. They even had a very nice live nativity that we were all able to enjoy. Paul & David finally fell asleep right as we were leaving the lights.
The next day we went to church with the Bill Schmid's, and then enjoyed a nice brunch buffet at a really nice restaurant. The kids then played all afternoon before we left for home.
Christmas Eve and Christmas Day were spent here at our house, my parents and sister came over Christmas Eve to spend the holiday with us. We went to the Christmas Eve communion service at our church and then came back to our house for soup and sandwiches, and just had a nice relaxing evening at home.
Christmas Day Paul & David slept late!! Can you believe it? I woke up at 7:30 and no one was awake yet, so I got up and made some apple cider, then went back to bed for a while. Closer to 8 I decided to get up and go ahead and put the quiche for breakfast in the oven, and not long after that Paul & David decided to get up. While everyone else was still asleep we sat on the couch and read the Christmas story and opened all the flaps on our Advent calendar. After waking everyone else up they were very anxious to have Jesus' birthday party and open all their presents. (We do not do Santa at our house, we just have a big birthday party for Jesus!) Their favorite gifts are their new big boy bicycles, and their big boy "measure" (a tape measure). They love to help their daddy work and now they have their own tape measures so Daddy can use his (thanks Aunt Cristi!).
We just played all morning and prepared lunch. I cooked my first ever standing rib roast and it was very yummy. After lunch we put candles on Jesus' birthday cake and sang "Happy Birthday" to Jesus, with the boys blowing out the candles. It was a great Christmas and we made lots of good memories. I pray each of you had a wonderful Christmas also!
Wednesday, December 26, 2007
Wednesday, December 19, 2007
Monday, December 17, 2007
Christmas Baking!
Today the boys and I made chocolate covered pretzels for our friends in the neighborhood. They love to help me in the kitchen and were very excited that we were going to be cooking! Their favorite part was putting the colored sprinkles everywhere, not just on the pretzels. They really did pretty good and didn't make that big of a mess, but the fun they had makes up for any mess they did make.
As I was cleaning up the mess on our kitchen table, I was reminded that my table has seen lots and lots of memories and good times. You see, I have my grandmother's old kitchen table, my Maw-maw's. She was a wonderful grandmother and sometimes I miss her and my Granny terribly. How I wish they could have lived to see and know my precious boys, they would have been proud.
My Maw-maw was a wonderful cook and I have fond memories of sitting around that kitchen table with aunts, uncles, and cousins. I remember when I was little and would go stay with them, she and my Paw-paw would sit there and read the Bible after we were supposed to be in the bed. I remember helping her make cornbread and biscuits, and I remember drinking Tang at her kitchen table. Lots of memories, all of which I am so thankful for. And I am even more thankful that now I am making my own memories around that wonderful kitchen table.
Moments with family, that is what makes Christmas and everyday special! Enjoy your family, and make some lasting memories this holiday season!!
Christmas Blessings!
The Blessing Song
The Blessing Songby Dennis Jernigan
May the Lord answer you in the day of your troubles!
May the name of the Lord be your strong mighty tower!
May He grant you your heart's deepest dreams and desires!
May He answer each time you call!
May He pour out the blessing of heaven!
May you cast your cares on Him and daily fall!
May you live to see your children's children!
May Lord Jesus be your All in All!
May the Lord Jesus Christ satisfy beyond all measure!
May His Word light your path!
May His Peace guard your heart!
May your days be filled with gladness,
Joy and peace through any sadness
Filled with love that will not depart!
May your strength be renewed like the eagle!
As you run the race may joy flood every part!
May your memories all be sweet in each parting!
May the peace of Christ rule in your heart!
May His word be to you health and life, joy and treasure.
May your home be a light.
May the Lord guard your ways.
May the Lord be your Shepherd.
May His goodness and mercy follow after you all your days!
May His mercies be new every morning!
May His Grace and Holy Spirit help you stand!
May you live your life to die for the gospel!
May you hold to His unchanging hand!
May the Lord answer you in the day of your trouble!
May the name of the Lord be your strong mighty tower!
May He grant you your heart's deepest dreams and desires!
May He answer each time you call!
May He answer each time you call!
Wednesday, December 12, 2007
Wordless Wednesday #4
Tuesday, December 11, 2007
Christmas Cards!!
My favorite cards are the ones with pictures and letters or little notes. We do a Christmas letter every year, a little something we started doing our first Christmas together. It is fun to get together with James and reminisce about our year, picking our favorite and most memorable memories to relay to all who take the time to read our letter.
I think this year we are going to start a new tradition, this is one that I have "stolen" from my creative memories consultant! I am going to take all the cards that we get with pictures and make a simple little scrapbook to sit out on our coffee table year round. Every day or week (haven't decided yet which one) our family will pick another family to pray specifically for. Having the pictures will be nice reminders to us and especially to our boys of who we are praying for. I thought this was a wonderful idea and that it would be a great way to teach our boys the importance of praying for others and not just for our family and ourselves. So if you want us to be praying for you, send us your picture!!
So, what about you? What are some of your favorite things about Christmas, and do you have any traditions you can share with us?














