Thursday, January 31, 2013

Thankful Thursday!

Another Thursday is upon us... I almost let it slip by, and I really need to be starting dinner for the family right now, but I decided I will give thanks first!

This week I am thankful for:

  • Shelter from the wind, rain, and cold... we had lots of wind and rain here on Wednesday, and then the temperatures plummeted from the 70s to the 30s, so I am thankful for a home with a thermostat!
  • Chick-fil-A and visits with other CBS (Community Bible Study) moms after our class each week...
  • A husband who is handy and can fix anything he puts his hands to...
  • Food to cook and a family to clean up after...
  • Giggles and laughter...
  • Books to read... and boys who like to read books...
  • Children who are good at doing their chores... they are such good helpers!
  • Snuggles with all my men...
  • Our kitty, Bootsie, who is 19 and still hanging in there with us!
  • Redemption...


What are you thankful for this week?  Take some time to think about it, even if it makes you a bit late cooking dinner!!




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Thursday, January 24, 2013

Thankful Thursday

Another Thursday is here... it seems the week just speeds by and before I know it another week has vanished!  I have good intentions of doing other blog posts, have a few floating around in my mind, but have not found the time to "get them on paper".  So in my effort to be more intentional about being thankful here is my thankful Thursday post for this week...

I am thankful for:

  1. My double blessings... this week they turned 9!  My, they are growing up!
  2. The privilege of studying God's Word with other ladies at Community Bible Study... today a precious lady shared her testimony.  She grew up with a very abusive father, was 1 of 6 children, yet her mother took her to church, her teachers had daily devotions, prayed with their class, and taught the Bible... in public school.  She came to know Christ at an early age, and God gifted her with an excellent reading ability at an early age... so much so that she read God's Word through, cover to cover, while in the 2nd grade!  She said she savored every word, every line, and every page!  Can you imagine hungering for God's Word at such a young age??  I was encouraged to not take His Word for granted, and to pray for my children to hunger and thirst for His Word so much that they read it without being prodded to...
  3. The strength and energy to run!  And the occasional run with a friend out running at the same time!
  4. Sunshine!  We have had some beautiful days after a long, dreary, cloudy, rainy week last week...
  5. Books to read...
  6. Like-minded friends... the Lord has blessed me with a couple of wonderful, like-minded, homeschooling moms of boys, both of whom I got to spend time with this week...
  7. Little boys giggles and little boy hugs...
  8. My husband, and the little things he does to help me and make my days go smoother...
  9. The privilege of prayer...
  10. The constant presence of my Lord and Savior through His Holy Spirit...

Take time to stop and give thanks for the blessings in your life, big and small... it may just refresh a tired and weary heart!


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Thursday, January 17, 2013

Thankful Thursday

Well, I made it to another Thursday... time to share again what I am thankful for from the past week.  This has been a rainy, cold week, and I have been cooped up inside, homeschooling 2 squirrelly, wiggly boys who have been big bundles of energy!  But we have had a good week, with sweet times together reading and learning new things.  And today we had SNOW!!  That is quite exciting here in our part of the world... just a few flurries that do not stick, yet the schools close early (some anyway), people leave work early, and the grocery stores run out of milk and bread!




Here are a few things I have been thankful for this week:

  • the sound of rain falling outside, worship music playing inside
  • books to read
  • warm clothes to run in
  • morning hugs given and received
  • snuggles on the couch with a shared blanket while reading
  • cold, white snowflakes swirling in the wind
  • little boys thrilled with excitement over falling snow
  • the sun peeking out from behind the clouds
  • life - reminded how precious and fragile life is as a friend of a friend lost her baby in her 5th month of pregnancy
  • library books, our home is always a bit quieter following a trip to the library
  • grace... undeserved, yet given in abundance...

Have you stopped and taken time to give thanks??  It will certainly bless your heart...


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Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Child Training and the Word of God

I am currently reading a book that I wish I had found years ago, when my boys were itty, bitty...  It is packed full of excellent yet practical ways and reasons to teach your children the Scriptures.  Not just drill them by memory into their heads, but teach them into their hearts...  Teaching God's Word into their hearts takes more time and effort than memorizing, it helps them to understand God's Word, and it helps them to apply it in their lives, even as a young child.  It often requires stopping in the midst of life, many times when it is inconvenient and when it interferes with your schedule... and it requires taking that real life opportunity to teach and apply scripture at the moment when it is needed.  And by teaching His Word into their little heart in this way, they will memorize it and know it because of the time you will spend together reading it and talking about it.  The book is Teach Them Diligently, How to Use the Scriptures in Child Training by Lou Priolo. 

From the title you can probably surmise that the book is based on the scripture from Deuteronomy 6:6-9.

And these words, which I am commanding you today, shall be on your heart; and you shall teach them diligently to your sons and shall talk of them when you sit in your house and when you walk by the way and when you lie down and when you rise up.  And you shall bind them as a sign on your hand and they shall be as frontals on your forehead.  And you shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

I am not even halfway through the book yet, as I am taking my time, trying to glean all there is to be gleaned from this little treasure I just happened to find at a 2nd hand bookstore!  However, I have already put many of its principles and suggestions to use and am very much pleased!  I feel that what I am learning is helping me to be more effective as a parent in fulfilling the command quoted above in Deut. 6.

The following 2 quotes have really struck me, and I have gone back to re-read them numerous times.  They apply to my relationship with my kids, my husband, and my friends...  I am to be truthful, yet loving, as they are with me, in regards to sin.  I am to confront it lovingly, using God's Word, and the power of God's Spirit, in order to bring conviction, to correct, and to train my children in righteousness. 

You would count him unworthy the name of a friend who, knowing a thief or an incendiary to lurk in your family with a design to kill, or rob, or burn your house, would conceal it from you, and not acquaint you with it in his own accord.  There is no such thief, murderer, incendiary, as sin.  Silence or concealment in this case is treachery.  He is the most faithful friend, and worthy of most esteem and affection, that deals most plainly with us in reference to the discovery of our sin.  He that is reserved in this case is but a false friend, a mere pretender to love, whereas, indeed, he hates his brother in his heart.  David Clarkson

A foolish physician he is, and a most unfaithful friend, that will let a sick man die for fear of troubling him; and cruel wretches are we to our friends, that will rather suffer them to go quietly to hell, than we will anger them, or hazard our reputation with them.  Richard Baxter  

(he notes that both of these quotations are taken from The Golden Treasury of Puritan Quotations)


I want to be a faithful friend... a faithful wife... a faithful mom...

I want to be faithful to my Lord and Savior...

May my Lord continue to be faithful to me as I humbly attempt to train my 2 little warriors for Him and for His glory, using the marvelous Sword He has provided for me, the Sword of the Spirit, the very Word of God.




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Thursday, January 10, 2013

Thankful Thursday



I used to be very consistent doing my Thankful Thursday posts... then homeschooling started, and I found it hard to find time to sit and type out a post. After teaching all day I found myself, and still do, mentally exhausted. I still try to have a thankful heart, and I really like the accountability of knowing I have a post to do, which makes me intentionally look for things to be thankful for, big and small.

 I have noticed recently that my children sure do complain about things... and boy, how that gets on my nerves! I have started making them immediately think of something they are thankful for when I hear a complaint pop out of their mouth. And sometimes they complain about that!! We all have those days, the kind where we complain and grumble more than we give thanks... those types of days usually do not end with good fruit. I want to intentionally be thankful, and I desire to teach my children to intentionally be thankful, so we will see how my Thursdays go this year...

We have been to Bible study this morning, then ran to pick up my race packet for a race I am running in this weekend... now we are home. The boys are riding bikes up and down the street, and the thought entered my mind that I should do a Thankful Thursday post. So here it goes...

This week I am thankful for the following:
1. Life... physical and spiritual 
2. Good health... 
3. A husband who works hard to provide for our family...
4. Children who are kind, hard-working, and fun...
5.  Time in the mornings to read the Word and drink a cup of coffee...
6.  Resurrected iPods!  (Mine died last weekend but has now been revived!!)
7.  Friends and family who have been willing to share their iPod with me so I would not have to run without music!
8. My husband making up our bed each morning...
9.  For food to cook and a family to cook for...
10.  For the many spiritual blessings we have "in Him"... I am currently attempting to memorize the book of Ephesians (on chapter 1 right now), and have had my eyes opened to the immenseness of the spiritual blessings we have in Christ.


Do you have a thankful heart today??  What are some things you are thankful for??

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Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Happy New Year!!

Our annual Christmas and New Year's letter is below! 
We also included several links to pictures and other sites we have found to be helpful and encouraging through the year... Hope you enjoy!! 

 May your HOPE for 2013 and all the years to come be in Jesus Christ, 
our Savior and Lord!



We pray the year 2012 has been a good one for you, our friends and family. Our annual Christmas letter was not composed in time to make it in the mail with our Christmas cards, hence a New Year's letter here on the blog. For whoever is interested, here are a few of the highlights from our year, each in our own words...

Tricia: I continue to be blessed to be a stay at home wife, mom, and homeschool teacher. My days are full, as well as my heart, yet sometimes the work is awfully hard and tiring. However, my Lord continues to daily provide me with strength, energy, and endurance to do what He has called me to do for this season.

We are well into 3rd grade and I am so proud of the boys for all their hard work. What a joy it is to see them learning, and it truly blesses my heart to see and hear them actually apply what they are learning! I love to see David curled up reading a book, it amazes me at how well Paul can apply numbers and math to daily activities, and it tickles me when Paul uses big words correctly, just because he likes to use big words! They both sometimes leave me stunned at how much science and history they glean and can have a conversation about just from time spent reading together!

 One of the highlights of our year has been spring and fall soccer season! They have both become good little soccer players and I absolutely LOVE watching them play and cheering them on! Being a soccer Mom is FUN! David seems to have a natural God-given ability and speed that he uses nicely and humbly on the field... We were told he plays like "Messi", which we found out later was quite a compliment! Many hours of practice between the 2 of them and James in the backyard has resulted in some awesome "brother" plays on the field... One passes to the other right in front of the goal and the other one shoots it in!

I continue to run. It is a great way to clear my mind, get some exercise, and it is the one time of the day when no one can ask me any questions!! I completed the Seaside Half Marathon with a friend in March, and am currently training for the Mercedes Half coming up in February.

As I get older, it becomes more and more evident that nothing in this world matters other than knowing Jesus, my Lord and Savior and walking with Him. My heart's desire is that my husband and children would see Jesus in me, and that those I meet along this life journey would see Him and want to know Him and walk with Him also.

 David: I liked soccer because it was fun. I also liked Dollywood, especially the Wild Eagle roller coaster. I also liked camping out with friends in the backyard because we got to have smores. I liked riding the Ski Bob behind the pontoon boat, because it was easy to stay on and not fall off. Paw-paw took me to Uncle Rays, I was fishing with dead minnows and I caught a croppy. I also caught a colossal bass! When we used crickets at Uncle Ray’s we caught too many blue gill to count!! I also used live minnows and a spinner bait that bass love and caught 4 bass! Uncle Ray has a really nice big lake behind his house, I love to go there! And Paw-paw almost reeled in a 20 pound carp and I got to help, but it broke his pole!!

Paul: This year I liked seeing dolphins and a manta ray at the Gulf of Mexico. I also liked going to Tennessee and staying in a cabin in the mountains with my fun cousins. The cabin was 3 stories, had a hot tub, and a game room with a pool table, foosball table, ping-pong table, and an Xbox game system. Grandfather played a game of pool with us and he won! We went to the beach with some friends and it was very fun! While at the beach we saw a lot of jellyfish! And we also went to the lake and rode on a pontoon boat. And while we were there I caught a catfish and I tangled it in fishing line. And while I was riding behind the pontoon boat I jumped a wave, and I went through a wave.

Bootsie: I’m coming up on 20 years… against their better judgment I’ve been allowed in the house some during the holidays, it’s been kind of cold these past few weeks. I had them wondering if I was about to leave them a couple of times this year, and they hauled me off to the vet which is something I never want to repeat. Then I had to continue to suffer for a couple of weeks as they jammed some yuck stuff down my throat and coated my eye with some foreign substance… glad that is over! But one good thing did come out of all that, now I get to eat canned food!! It tastes heavenly!!

James: Another year, ... I must have blinked along the way. Our little boys are turning into little men. They've become serious soccer players, mountain bike riders, wrestlers, and fishermen. They have kind hearts and sweetly express compassion for the less fortunate, for those that who are different, or those in pain, that is, unless they are inflicting pain or misfortune on each other. The boys still find girls to be yucky but they also find something mysteriously interesting about them. They still dig dirt and Tonka trucks and things made out of cardboard boxes. They have requested a 3-story ropes course as an addition to their backyard fort. 

 I find myself thankful for many things… for good times and good friends, for the opportunity to travel, for my wife's restored health, for the blessing and opportunity of seeing family that we hadn’t seen for years, for my boys love of being outdoors, their eagerness to learn, and for their strong work ethic and desire to be helpful (many times without being prompted). I’m thankful that my boys know about the Jim Elliots, Gladys Aylwards, Eric Liddells of this world. 

Thankful for good friends… let’s expound on that one a bit… just HOW good are these friends? How about sharing a condo at the beach and nary a fuss from the adults nor children! Or an incredibly fun weekend on the lake sking and tubing! Even better, an eight hour road trip to watch cars go fast and hangout with old college buddies- just to have your minivan drop a transmission without warning six hours from the house on the way home!! Thankfully we were able to coast to an exit ramp and then pushed the van to the only establishment in sight, which happened to be a Dollar General. Wasn’t looking forward to that tow bill! Yet the Lord provides. While we awaited our rescue from the extraordinary Mr. George, we made the best of it and camped out at the Dollar General parking lot, complete with hibachi grill. This “good friend” acquired a trailer to haul our entourage back home, drove 6 hours to rescue us, loaded us up, turned around and hauled us back home. Tricia managed to miss this memory maker, as she was enjoying a rare 3 day weekend at home all alone. However, my friend’s wife that was well with child WAS with us… and she just rolled with it- calmly knitting as darkness fell upon us.

On a different note, I empathize with those who have lost loved ones, those who are experiencing the pain of broken relationships, and those who live with chronic pain. But the Lord allows for us to grow through circumstances and I continue to strive to be the best husband, dad, son, and friend that I can. To help keep things in perspective, I enjoy listening to Ravi Zacharias, John MacArthur, Erwin Lutzer and Chip Ingram.

May 2013 be filled with the blessings of the Lord in your lives and in your families. “The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.”  Numbers 6:24-26 

Love and Blessings, 
James, Tricia, Paul, David, and Bootsie 


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